relations
you are always in search of a partner, whatever person would give you a chance you'd pair up with them. with every new girl/guy, it is "she's different, she's the one trust me"
think of it like this, imagine you've the perfect nacho chip, but you need to make a good salsa sauce to pair it with the nacho. but you also have readymade vinegar sauce by your side. what would you do? wait for 5-10 min to have the best nachos of your life, or just dip it in vinegar and have it. you'd make the salsa and then have it.
then why do you treat a nacho chip better than you treat yourself